a very light bioenergetic contact on the clothed body
“What seems so amazing to me about Butterfly Touch is that it feels such a gift. The giver is not trying to DO anything to me or get anything from me. I am able to be with the whole of me, and to feel accepted just as I am”.Butterfly Touch nurtures the nervous system, harmonises all the body functions, and helps the baby to establish body awareness. It is particularly useful in overcoming the effects of a difficult birth and in supporting and healing the bonding of mother and baby.
Working with a BabyIt is important to use this form of touch only when the baby is settled and to keep touch very light ,tuning in to what is acceptable for your baby. The baby can be lying on the floor, or on a bed or padded table. It can be of benefit to give butterfly touch at a regular time each day. Between five and fifteen minutes is usually long enough. If the baby begins to cry during the session, finish with the long strokes.
For ParentsThis form of touch can be easily learned and offered in love and friendship. It can deepen the bond between partners and is particularly helpful during the period of recovery and adjustment that follows the birth of a baby. It is gently supportive when there has been shock or trauma, or if other forms of touch are challenging.
With children and adultsAlthough it is possible to work on the floor it is easier and more comfortable for the person giving the “touch” if a bed or padded table is available. The treatment for an adult may take about thirty minutes. When working with children a fifteen to twenty minute session at bedtime is ideal.
TechniquesBefore you begin to give the treatment, loosen your shoulders, arms,
hands and fingers, by shaking. Now slow down and deepen your
breathing. Always allow your hands to make contact very lightly, like a
butterfly landing on a flower. Work from the midline to the periphery
and from the head downwards. For a new born or premature baby, use only
the tip of one or two fingers
tell the baby what you are about to do before you begin each move
Begin with the baby lying on its backlong strokes from the top of the head to the tips of the toes (x3)
long strokes from the top of the head to the tips of the fingers (x3)
tiny circles with a finger tip lightly over the head
circling clockwise around the tummy, avoiding the umbilical area
gently stroking each hand and each finger
gently stroking each foot and each toe
“stitching” movements down the arms and legs
long strokes all the way from the top of the head to the toes (x3)
long strokes from top of the head down the arms to the fingertips
(x3)
long strokes from the top of the head to the tips of the toes (x3)
long strokes from the top of the head to the finger tips (x3)
stroking across the mid-back
“stitching” movements down the arms, over the back and legs
long strokes all the way from the top of the head to the toes (x3)
long strokes from top of the head down the arms to the fingertips
(x3)
Say what you are about to do before you begin each new move. This is
important if there may be shock or trauma held in the body.
long strokes from the top of the head to the tips of the toes (x3)
long strokes from the top of the head to the tips of the fingers (x3)
make small circles with the finger tips over as much of the head as you can reach
circle round the eyes starting under the middle of the eyebrows
stroke over the nose from the bridge sideways over the cheeks to the ears
stroke the back of the ears from above downwards in a semi-circle
make small circles over the chewing muscles
make single circles around the mouth
circle above and below the chin
stroke downward over the chin
stroke lightly over the throat as far back as can be reached
gently jiggle the muscles which turn the head
circle over the muscles at the back of the neck without lifting the head
The Armslong strokes from top of head down both arms to the fingertips (x3)
shake gently from the upper edge of the shoulder to the fingertips
stroke the hand from the outside, in an opening manner
lightly touch and stroke the palm of the hand
stroke down the thumb and each finger from base to tip
repeat with the other arm and hand
and complete with “stitching” movements down both arms (x3)
Chest and Abdomenlong strokes swiftly and lightly from top of head to the tip of the toes (x3)
stroke gently with one finger following the ribs from midline towards the back,
starting from collar bone and working down
shake the muscle in front of the armpit
stroke the belly clockwise in large circles with one hand, following the direction of the colon (do not touch the navel)
on the belly make tiny clockwise circles, following the path of the larger circle, as above
gently shake the belly wall in same pattern
stroke the bikini fold from middle to sides, follow with tiny circles
Legslong strokes from the belly down the legs to the toes (x3)
include but do not accentuate the genitals
shake the thigh and lower leg
stroke the foot sole and top
make tiny circles over the sole of the foot with the tips of the fingers
starting with the big toe, stroke each toe from base to tip
repeat with the other leg and foot
and complete with “stitching” movement down each leg (x3)
The Whole Bodylong strokes from the top of the head to the tips of the toes (x3)
long strokes from top of head to finger tips (x3)
long strokes from the top of the head to the tips of the toes (x3)
long strokes from the top of the head to the finger tips (x3)
The Backstroke diagonally over the shoulder blades
trembling circles over the shoulder blades with finger tips
stroke the lumbar region, between ribs and buttocks, horizontally
make small circles with finger tips in the rib interspaces starting just below the shoulder blades and working from the spine round to the sides of the chest
small circles on the extensor muscles of the back, either side of the spinal column,
working from the upper back downward
stroke the buttocks diagonally from the midline down and outward, follow with shaky circles
The Legslong strokes from the buttocks down each leg to the toes (x3)
shake the back of thigh and calf, downwards
repeat on the other leg
The Whole Body“stitching” movements down the arms, over the back and legs (x3)
long strokes all the way from the top of the head to the toes (x3)
long strokes from top of the head down the arms to the fingertips (x3)
On completionallow time for the baby to return to the world gradually,
to choose to make contact with you, or to rest.
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